{"id":3738,"date":"2020-06-01T07:57:16","date_gmt":"2020-06-01T05:57:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.new.prod.mutu.creativedock.cloud\/blog\/?p=3738"},"modified":"2021-02-01T11:44:30","modified_gmt":"2021-02-01T10:44:30","slug":"blahoprani-cynickemu-rodici-ke-dni-deti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.new.prod.mutu.creativedock.cloud\/blog\/2020\/06\/01\/blahoprani-cynickemu-rodici-ke-dni-deti\/","title":{"rendered":"Blahop\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed cynick\u00e9mu rodi\u010di ke Dni d\u011bt\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"

Po roce tu zase m\u00e1me 1. \u010derven a s\u00a0n\u00edm i oslavu Dne d\u011bt\u00ed. My si u p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitosti tohoto sv\u00e1tku dovolujeme nab\u00eddnout n\u011bkolik alternativn\u00edch doporu\u010den\u00ed, jak si uchovat zbytky du\u0161evn\u00edho zdrav\u00ed. Jen upozor\u0148ujeme, \u017ee zat\u00edmco v\u011bt\u0161ina ostatn\u00edch n\u00e1vod\u016f zohled\u0148uje p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm dobro d\u011bt\u00ed, n\u00e1m jde prim\u00e1rn\u011b o dobro rodi\u010de. N\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00ed \u0159\u00e1dky nicm\u00e9n\u011b \u010dtete s nadhledem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Foto: Freepik.com\/freepik.diller<\/p>\n

Poznejte sv\u00e9ho nep\u0159\u00edtele<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Poj\u010fme si to \u0159\u00edct jasn\u011b a otev\u0159en\u011b: d\u00edt\u011b je nep\u0159\u00edtel. Nenechte se ukol\u00e9bat roztomil\u00fdm vzhledem t\u011bch mal\u00fdch bytost\u00ed. Ve skute\u010dnosti jsou to Gremlini<\/a>. Ano, ta p\u016fvabn\u00e1 stvo\u0159en\u00ed, kter\u00e1 se jako m\u00e1vnut\u00edm kouzeln\u00e9ho proutku zm\u011bn\u00ed v devastuj\u00edc\u00ed potvory. My rodi\u010de to m\u00e1me o to hor\u0161\u00ed, \u017ee sv\u00e9 d\u011bti milujeme. Nem\u016f\u017eeme si pomoct, je to biologicky dan\u00e9. To z nich ale ned\u011bl\u00e1 nep\u0159\u00edtele o nic m\u00e9n\u011b nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9. Naopak, nep\u0159\u00edtel o t\u00e9 slabosti v\u00ed, vyu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00e9 na\u0161\u00ed nepozornosti a v nejm\u00e9n\u011b vhodn\u00e9m okam\u017eiku za\u00fato\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Lest je lep\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e s\u00edla<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Z bodu jedna vypl\u00fdv\u00e1, \u017ee porazit tak prohnan\u00e9ho nep\u0159\u00edtele silou je v z\u00e1sad\u011b nemo\u017en\u00e9. D\u016frazn\u011b tedy nedoporu\u010dujeme fyzick\u00e9 tresty. Nejen\u017ee podle psycholog\u016f v\u00e1\u0161 nep\u0159\u00edtel sv\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed v dohledn\u00e9 dob\u011b zopakuje, ale nav\u00edc to na n\u011bj m\u00e1 dlouhodob\u00e9 negativn\u00ed dopady. A to je z\u00e1sadn\u00ed probl\u00e9m, proto\u017ee je pravd\u011bpodobn\u00e9, \u017ee jednou se situace obr\u00e1t\u00ed a vy t\u00edm slab\u0161\u00edm budete vy. Ocitnete se tak mo\u017en\u00e1 v bezmocn\u00e9 pozici, kdy o v\u00e1s bude rozhodovat habitu\u00e1ln\u011b agresivn\u00ed jedinec, kter\u00e9ho jste sami nau\u010dili, \u017ee siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je v pr\u00e1vu prost\u011b proto, \u017ee je siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\"Radost
Radost d\u011bt\u00ed je radost rodi\u010d\u016f. N\u011bkdy ale ne\u0161kod\u00ed si p\u0159iznat, \u017ee budeme r\u00e1di, kdy\u017e se d\u011bti zvl\u00e1dnou radovat i bez na\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtomnosti. Du\u0161evn\u00ed zdrav\u00ed m\u00e1me jenom jedno.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

P\u0159e\u010d\u016frejte je<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Jak tedy d\u011bti p\u0159im\u011bt, aby ud\u011blaly to, co chcete? Bu\u010fte vynal\u00e9zav\u00ed a vyu\u017eijte jejich vrozen\u00e9 sout\u011b\u017eivosti. Kdy\u017e se pot\u0159ebujete rychle transportovat k n\u011bjak\u00e9mu bodu, dejte si s d\u011btmi z\u00e1vody, kdo tam bude prvn\u00ed. Prohrajte \u2013 je to mal\u00e1 cena za to, \u017ee dos\u00e1hnete sv\u00e9ho. Pot\u0159ebujete-li sv\u00e9 potomky p\u0159im\u011bt, aby si po sob\u011b uklidili, stanovte na to t\u0159eba p\u011btiminutov\u00fd limit a slibte jim odm\u011bnu, pokud to v dan\u00e9m \u010dase zvl\u00e1dnou. Prost\u011b bu\u010fte vychytral\u00ed, \u00fasko\u010dn\u00ed a fale\u0161n\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Bu\u010fte k sob\u011b up\u0159\u00edmn\u00ed<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Situace, ve kter\u00e9 jste se ocitli, m\u00e1 v\u0161echny atributy krize. A p\u0159\u00edru\u010dky krizov\u00e9ho managementu<\/a> prav\u00ed, \u017ee jedn\u00edm z nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edch p\u0159edpoklad\u016f pro zvl\u00e1dnut\u00ed krize je pr\u00e1v\u011b up\u0159\u00edmnost a otev\u0159enost. Minim\u00e1ln\u011b k sob\u011b. Znovu si tedy p\u0159ipome\u0148te, \u017ee sv\u00e9 d\u011bti milujete. Nejde o va\u0161e racion\u00e1ln\u00ed rozhodnut\u00ed, ale o p\u0159\u00edrodou nastaven\u00fd mechanismus. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 si ale nenalh\u00e1vejte, \u017ee jste si d\u011bti po\u0159\u00eddili kv\u016fli nim samotn\u00fdm. Ne, \u0161lo o nejsobe\u010dt\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u010din, kter\u00e9ho jste se v \u017eivot\u011b dopustili. Smyslem podobn\u00e9ho my\u0161lenkov\u00e9ho cvi\u010den\u00ed je pomoci v\u00e1m zbavit se nutk\u00e1n\u00ed b\u00fdt dokonal\u00fd rodi\u010d. To nejste a nikdy nebudete. U\u017e jen t\u00edm, \u017ee samotn\u00fd prvopo\u010d\u00e1tek va\u0161eho rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed stoj\u00ed na veskrze iracion\u00e1ln\u00edm a egoistick\u00e9m z\u00e1kladu.<\/p>\n

D\u011blejte chyby<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Tak\u00e9 m\u00e1te kolem sebe spoustu lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed v\u00e1m rad\u00ed, jak m\u00e1te vychov\u00e1vat sv\u00e9 d\u011bti? Jasn\u011b, na sv\u011bt\u011b existuj\u00ed rodi\u010de, kte\u0159\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi potomky nakl\u00e1daj\u00ed t\u00edm jedin\u011b spr\u00e1vn\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. Vy to nejste. Smi\u0159te se s t\u00edm. Skute\u010dnost, \u017ee v\u0161ichni ostatn\u00ed sv\u00e9 d\u011bti vychov\u00e1vaj\u00ed l\u00e9pe ne\u017e vy, v\u011bd\u00ed to a maj\u00ed evangelick\u00e9 posl\u00e1n\u00ed v\u00e1s o tom informovat paradoxn\u011b naznamen\u00e1, \u017ee by ve va\u0161em p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b neplatilo z\u00e1kladn\u00ed pravidlo v\u00fdchovy d\u011bt\u00ed: principem rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed je d\u011blat chyby. Mo\u017en\u00e1 se sna\u017e\u00edte neopakovat chyby sv\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f, nicm\u00e9n\u011b to v\u00e1m nezabra\u0148uje d\u011blat sv\u00e9, nov\u00e9 a potencion\u00e1ln\u011b mnohem destruktivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. A jestli s t\u00edm va\u0161e d\u011bti je\u0161t\u011b neza\u010daly, ve spr\u00e1vn\u00e9m v\u011bku v\u00e1m je v\u0161echny vyjmenuj\u00ed. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 se klidn\u011b m\u016f\u017eete d\u011btem omluvit. Omluva nebol\u00ed, a kdy\u017e se budete omlouvat vy, t\u0159eba se nau\u010d\u00ed omlouvat i va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b, a to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt n\u011bkdy i docela prosp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Dejte si to bez d\u011bt\u00ed<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Mnoho rodi\u010d\u016f trp\u00ed obsedantn\u00ed p\u0159edstavou, \u017ee sv\u00fdm d\u011btem mus\u00ed organizovat \u010das. Neust\u00e1le, aby se n\u00e1hodou nenudily. Nebu\u010fte mezi nimi. Nejen, \u017ee organizov\u00e1n\u00edm \u010dasu n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00edte o ten vlastn\u00ed, ale hlavn\u011b t\u00edm sv\u00fdm d\u011btem vlastn\u011b v\u016fbec nepom\u00e1h\u00e1te. Podle psychologick\u00fdch studi\u00ed se d\u011bti naopak pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed \u010das od \u010dasu nudit, aby se jim spr\u00e1vn\u011b vyvinul mozek. Podle p\u0159edn\u00ed expertky na nudu Teresy Belton z University of East Anglia pr\u00e1v\u011b chvilky nudy startuj\u00ed d\u011btskou kreativitu a umo\u017e\u0148uj\u00ed d\u011btem si uv\u011bdomit, co maj\u00ed vlastn\u011b r\u00e1dy a co je bav\u00ed. Tak\u017ee kdy\u017e za v\u00e1mi potomek p\u0159ijde s t\u00edm, \u017ee se nud\u00ed, zvolte up\u0159\u00edmnou a pravdivou odpov\u011b\u010f \u201eDob\u0159e ti tak.\u201c<\/p>\n

Te\u010f u\u017e nezb\u00fdv\u00e1, ne\u017e v\u00e1m pop\u0159\u00e1t kr\u00e1sn\u00fd Den d\u011bt\u00ed. A nezapome\u0148te vz\u00edt Gremliny do cukr\u00e1rny!<\/p>\n

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V\u00a0Mutumutu<\/a>\u00a0m\u00e1me r\u00e1di pohyb a zdrav\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00ed styl.\u00a0 Za radost ze sportu v\u00e1s odm\u011bn\u00edme vr\u00e1cen\u00edm 20 % z ceny poji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed. Dal\u0161\u00edch 5 % z\u00edsk\u00e1te za to, \u017ee nekou\u0159\u00edte a 5 % za to, \u017ee chod\u00edte na pravideln\u00e9 l\u00e9ka\u0159sk\u00e9 prohl\u00eddky.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

A\u017e 30 % zp\u011bt<\/a><\/div><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Po roce tu zase m\u00e1me 1. \u010derven a s\u00a0n\u00edm i oslavu Dne d\u011bt\u00ed. My si u p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitosti tohoto sv\u00e1tku dovolujeme nab\u00eddnout n\u011bkolik alternativn\u00edch doporu\u010den\u00ed, jak si uchovat zbytky du\u0161evn\u00edho zdrav\u00ed. Jen upozor\u0148ujeme, \u017ee zat\u00edmco v\u011bt\u0161ina ostatn\u00edch n\u00e1vod\u016f zohled\u0148uje p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm dobro d\u011bt\u00ed, n\u00e1m jde prim\u00e1rn\u011b o dobro rodi\u010de. N\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00ed \u0159\u00e1dky nicm\u00e9n\u011b \u010dtete s nadhledem. Foto: Freepik.com\/freepik.diller …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":36,"featured_media":3740,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[30,5],"tags":[110,171,234,78,149],"class_list":["post-3738","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-zdravi","category-zivotni-styl","tag-jednoduche-zivotni-pojisteni-online","tag-odpocinek","tag-psychicke-zdravi","tag-rodina","tag-zdravy-zivotni-styl"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.new.prod.mutu.creativedock.cloud\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3738","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.new.prod.mutu.creativedock.cloud\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.new.prod.mutu.creativedock.cloud\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.new.prod.mutu.creativedock.cloud\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/36"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.new.prod.mutu.creativedock.cloud\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3738"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/blog.new.prod.mutu.creativedock.cloud\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3738\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3745,"href":"https:\/\/blog.new.prod.mutu.creativedock.cloud\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3738\/revisions\/3745"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.new.prod.mutu.creativedock.cloud\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3740"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.new.prod.mutu.creativedock.cloud\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3738"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.new.prod.mutu.creativedock.cloud\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3738"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.new.prod.mutu.creativedock.cloud\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3738"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}